lessons in life

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Thursday, April 02, 2009
I've learned that we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.
I've learned that no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.
I've learned that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. The same goes for true love.
I've learned that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.
I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.
I've learned that you can keep going long after you can't.
I've learned that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.
I've learned that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.
I've learned that money is a lousy way of keeping score.
I've learned that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.
I've learned that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down, will be the ones to help you get back up.
I've learned that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.
I've learned that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
I've learned that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them, and less to do with how many years you have lived.
I've learned that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.
I've learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.
I've learned that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.
I've learned that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other. And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do love each other.
I've learned that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.
I've learned that two people can look at the same thing and see something totally different.
I've learned that your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you.
I've learned that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you you will find the strength to help.
I've learned that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.
I've learned that the people you care about most in life are sometimes taken from you too soon.
I've learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.
I've learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care back.
I've learned that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.
I've learned that it's not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts
I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.
I've learned that you can keep going long after you think you can't.
I've learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.
I've learned that either you control your attitude or it controls you.
I've learned that learning to forgive takes practice.
I've learned that there are people who love you dearly, but just don't know how to show it.

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for me, i've learned that life's hard nevertheless life's beautiful. but, really, i need to be loved. yeah, it seems i've hurted so many people's heart but, now it's a bit different. i cant explain what i really need. whatever, yeah it is.

P.S: i think this is the most inspirational quote i've ever read. (well, i know too it's not only 1 quote, they bundled it) but, you have to read all of it. this is what we called a real life. for the darken (bold sentences) and the underlined one, that means much for me.
enjoy!

8 comments on "lessons in life"
  1. i read it ever single one.
    and there are some twice quote in it.

    "I've learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief."
    if every grief means world stop, the world will stop forever.

    "I've learned that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever."
    I learned it too. :)

    "I've learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them."
    I've never succed in a relationship before. ahaha. so i still dont know how to.

    "you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them."
    Agree! :)

    whew, tough meanings, but it are great

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  2. geeeeeeeez. i thought i've deleted the double quotations. -.- later i'll check it again and repair it.
    yeah! i agree with you and those quotations. it's not wrong if they called it lessons in life cause it's true.. ;p

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  3. ni lu karang apa quotes dari orang chel? kereeeennn, hidup emang susah dan indah, bener2 2 hal yang berlawanan :)
    enjoy our life! :)

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  4. eh, gw kira pertama lo ngarank sndiri lho sel hahaha
    dapet darimana sel quotes nya?
    bisa aj da lo. haha

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  5. GAK LAH! GILA KALIIIIIII.. hahahahhaha... itu kan udah gw tulis di link source nya ada kok. dari situ. udah lama gw dapet. gw baru inget pas liat saved pages di hp gw. jadi kemaren gw post deh ke blog :)

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  6. I've learned that either you control your attitude or it controls you.

    I've learned that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.

    I've learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

    I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.

    I've learned that it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.

    I've learned that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.


    this are some double quotations.
    you can use alt+f (search) to help you find somethin :)

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  7. oke jo, thanks... udah gw apus2 yg dobel. tp ada beberapa yg ga ketemu dan gw pusing. maksudnya alt+f?

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  8. iya, jadi lo pencet alt+f.
    buat search gt, trus lo masukin kata aja, ntar dia otomatis ke kata itu. jadi ga repot gitu. bole di coba :)

    pk mojila ga? mungkin kl browser laen beda kali sel

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